This thing's gone far enough.
It's unacceptable to write someone's employers about something they wrote on the internet if they were not representing their employers when they did so. There's no gray area here. It's wrong. Don't do it.
Those of you who came here to tell me what a bastard I am are welcome to continue repeating the same things a few hundred people have already said to me. I don't care.
I thank those of you who have shown me support, but I hope you will allow this to end. Some people need to vent. Please let them do so without engaging them.